Tuesday, May 17, 2005

Journey update...

I spent the past 27 hours or so with him...

Was supposed to have came back here to cyber around 3pm yesterday. Well... yes and no. I was also supposed to have met up with Jin and gone out yesterday as well, hence the lack of clarity.
The plan was, since we were both gonna head over to IDP yesterday, we wanted to meet up there. But then while he was still in the bank, mum smsed me asking me to join her for lunch (in which I asked Jin if he wanted to join us lol) After lunch, mum decided to send me to IDP. Bah... there goes our plan to meet up. I called Jin up and told him that we could still meet each other there but I would pretend to not know him and it could be a secret rendezvous thingy XD. At IDP I kept looking around to see if he was there but I only saw him after I left =( He had just found a parking and was grabbing a ticket at the time. Well, headed back home to take my car, and instead of driving back to cyber, I drove to IDP again to find him. ^_^

We met up, decided to spend the day with him so I paid for a parking ticket till 6.29pm (not gonna add 10 sen just for 1 more minute... yea yea...I'm an accountant, stingy bunch we are) and we headed to pick his sis, Sue Ann (no idea how it's spelled :S) from her work place and sent her home. After that we ended up driving round and round Damansara, with no direction for quite awhile, and then popped into MV (not many places to go and plus he wanted to stay in KL coz we were supposed to have dinner there). I had a craving for sushi so we bought sushi ^_^ he wanted some ice cream in a pau thingy but I said we'd be full coz it was near dinner time so we skipped that. Oh yeah.... he got his fav drink... DR Pepper (*bleh*). Our plan was to eat at this stairs just outside the building where he used to have lunch when he worked in MV last time but I made a mistake thinking that the time was 8.40pm (was maybe an hour or so earlier) so he suggested that we had our sushi snack in the car at some nice spot with a view.

Unfortunately, that spot was covered up with a brand new bangalow lol. The next place he drove to was also blocked up by a fence. So I told him let's just pick any spot, dun need a view, stare at him is enough lol. ^_^ We stopped by the fence at a quiet road where I joked that if a police car were to come along and asked us what we were doing, we could just say having sushi....want some? =P He said we were a cute couple eating sushi in the middle of nowhere ^_^ Oh... it was only after dinner that he pointed out that the time at that moment was 8.30+pm... ish, I made a mistake and we rushed out from MV for nothing.

But then, when we headed over to Imbi for dinner, the shop turned out to be closed. His 2nd option in Mont Kiara was also closed... or the shop closed down, can't remember. We ended up driving round and round the shops in Mont Kiara looking through what's available, him pointing out all the missing shops that have closed down or disappeared... lookingfor food... Vietnamese, Japanese, Korean... finally settled for a Vietnamese place. But before we entered, he wanted a smoke. So we stood outside and then he suddenly had a craving for Chicken ala Kiev from Secret REcipe which was just next door. Just as we sat down, the waiter told us that the shop was closing (It was almost 10pm by then...swt, we'd been driving round and round for more than an hour) and so we went to the only other place available there, Souled Out Cafe... I had fried rice and he had his chicken kiev. Hah! I finished my food and he didn't... pif.
We spent quite a lot of time there just chatting, we'd been talking about the issue of our dads the whole day. (Oh yeah, he met up for dinner with his dad the night before and when he asked about my dad, his dad went..."Double-headed snake") Jin's dad doesn't like my dad and says he 'membodek's the boss and stuff'. Jin also wants to know what my dad thinks about his dad, coz he wants to know both sides of the story. And I kept telling him that I can't be the one to tell him what my dad says coz I promised my dad I wouldn't and plus, I don't want to be the person telling him bad stuff about his dad, after all, he respects his dad, I'd rather leave things be...

While we were chatting at that time, at one point he just went... "I have so many flaws.." Seemed to me he wanted to go on and add something but I do what I do best, ignore and pretend that it's nothing. I think it's just another insecurity issue... he has his to face, I have mine. It's not that I think it's unimportant, I just tackle things differently. I'm not the kind of person to reassure him there and then that he doesn't have to worry about his flaws coz I can accept the person that he is. But I think he does realise it that I don't really have to reassure him directly coz the way I act sometimes would show that to him anyway (coz it's like later on that night, when I told him I loved him, he said that sometimes I just reassure him, in which I replied it wasn't meant to reassure him, which is true, I just said it coz I felt like telling him that I loved him at that time).

Anyway, we went back to his place till 4am (yeah we were just making out and chatting as usual...come to think of it we spent a lot of time just talking yesterday and today). Then we drove to A&W coz he was hungry and ordered a takeaway meal. Next stop... Subang, picked up my car and the 2 of us drove to Cyber, it was about 6am when we got back I think, or maybe earlier? He ate his chicken (although by then he said he wasn't actually hungry anymore but didn't want to leave it till the morning), slept at about 8am. I got up at 11am to study (not much...crap). He kept waking up on and off (even moved to sleep ouside on the carpet while I was studying there) till about 4-5pm. Poor baby, he didn't get enough sleep the night before either (he slept at 8am that morning and I woke him up at 11am lol... not my fault, he slept late =P) He finally got up when I cooked some sausages, omellete and meatballs and we ate together (with his pack of soggy leftover fries). And then we chatted again...seemed to be talking a lot. Mostly on our dad's, how our coming together seems like a drama series, bringing up stuff about how we were when we got together (oh yeah, we have no anniversary, or maybe a 2 week anniversary due to the fact that we didn't really establish an exact date when we got together coz we were pretty unsure about where we both stood), our insecurities and some other topics.

Anyway, he has dinner tonight with his dad so he's gone. He'll be back tomorrow ^_^ I wanna plan my picnic thingy for tomorrow... pity the treasure map isn't working out too well...

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