Sunday, May 15, 2005

To tell or not to tell?

Had a rather interesting lunch today.

We were supposed to celebrate a Mothers' Day/Fathers' Day lunch today over in Kg Jawa. Food was pretty good. But the interesting part was listening to a whole bunch of stuff my dad had to tell.

Mum asked me today, how many people went out with me yesterday in MV. I said just 2... and then I decided to add the fact that Jin was the one with me. Dad was surprised, thinking that Jin was my classmate in MMU. I think he was surprised because Jin's dad's supposed to be rich or something, so he wouldn't expect for the son to be studying in a local uni like MMU. So I just told him that Jin's studying in Aus.
Towards the end of our lunch, dad had a lot of stories to share about Jin's dad... not good ones I'm afraid. Basically, he considers Jin's dad to be the ruin of Metroplex and Yaohan. There goes the idea of telling them that I'm dating Jin. Not that I plan to hide it, I'd just think it'd be better to let them guess on their own rather than to tell them straight.

I think I made a slight mistake in telling Jin that our dad's aren't exactly 'the best of frens' coz he seems pretty worried about the whole thing now. He just assured me that the problems of our dads are their problems and he doesn't care about what his family thinks about him dating me. He loves me and he'll just do as he pleases anyway ^_^ how sweet... I don't think the issue is all that serious, I'd just rather not tell them directly about him being my bf. If I keep going out with him in front of them, they'd pretty much guess anyway =P

Well... for now I'm just leaving things as they are. They know I went out with him alone, they're aware of his existence, sooner or later they'd probably put 2 n 2 together.

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